How to keep safe

Opportunities vs Risks


Every piece of information you post, every action you take online has commercial value to someone. Your information helps companies provide you with ads that are targeted to your interests, helps researchers know what kind of products to design. Your personal currency is valuable.

Nothing is temporary online. The virtual world is full of opportunities to interact and share with people around the world. It's also a place where nothing is temporary and there are no 'take-backs'. What you do and say online can't be retrieved, even if you delete it and it's so easy for others to copy, save, and forward your information.

Your information can be used in negative ways.

For example: to embarrass or bully you, by criminals or individuals building profiles of people to scam, to steal identities, hijack computers, find homes to break into, people to physically harm, and so on...

If it's not something you'd want the world to see, don't post it.

Remember, everything on your profile represents who you are. What does yours say about you? Will your choices online today effect your future opportunity?

There is no such thing as privacy online.

Make sure your Facebook / Social networking and other profiles are private.

Regularly check your profile privacy settings on Facebook and other social networking sites, they are often automatically reset without notification.

Setting your FB page to private is essential and a step in the right direction but who's on your friends list?

Don't give just anyone access to your world. Your personal profile is not a popularity contest. How many of your 'friends' do you actually know in real life?

Know the person you are adding, there are so many fake profiles online. Do you really want strangers viewing your personal profile or your friends profiles? You could be making yourself or you family vulnerable if you allow just anyone to view your personal information.

Have you ever added someone to your 'friends' list just for the 'count'? Are they really who they say they are?

It is not uncommon for predators and criminals to steal the identities of people in the public eye. The profiles of musicians, celebrities, model photographers and popular professionals are often stolen to lure kids and teens.

Regardless of whether you are dealing with a social media site or not, one of the best ways to ensure that you stay in control of your personal information is to always read the privacy policy or any specific terms and conditions of organisations that you provide your personal details to. In many cases the default setting for social media sites is that all information that you post on the site is public. Take the time to read over terms and conditions.

Would you give your personal information to a stranger on the street?

This means phone numbers, addresses, your live location, places of employment etc... People online are strangers too. Never put these details on your profile.

Passwords are yours, don't share them as they can be used against you. Never store passwords on your smart phone in notes or memos. These can be easily accessed.

Consider who will see the profile photos you post. You may think you look awesome, but it may draw some unwanted attention from users who have the wrong intention.

Really think about the types of photos you are posting, once uploaded they are not easily retrievable and can be used by others without your permission.

Photos you share via apps can be easily screenshot and shared without your knowledge. Photos sent via apps like Snapchat are easily retrieveable so be sure that you are happy for anyone to see your images before sending via these apps.

Sharing sexual photos or text messages may seem harmless, but you could be breaking the law by sending, receiving or forwarding pictures if the images are of anyone under the age of 18yrs. Once you've sent a picture or message, it's out of your control and could turn up anywhere at anytime. They can be used by others for cyber bullying, cyber stalking or sexual harassment.

Don't respond to innappropriate contact online.

A high percentage of teens receive inappropriate messages and solicitations when they're online. These can be scary, strange and embarrassing. If you feel harassed by a stranger or friend online, tell an adult you trust immediately. It's never good to respond. Responding is likely to make the situation worse and you may say something you wish you hadn't.

Just as in the non-cyber world, some people you encounter online might try to take advantage of you, emotionally, financially or physically.

Users can easily remain anonymous, chat rooms often attract people who are interested in more than just chatting. They'll sometimes ask for information about you, your family, or where you live — information that shouldn't be given away.

Predators may use this information to begin illegal or indecent relationships or to harm a person's or family's well-being.

Never hesitate to BLOCK individuals who make you feel uncomfortable online.

If someone offers you something that seems to good to be true it probably is.

Cyber bullying is never ok.

Treat others as you would want to be treated online... if you are receiving bullying messages, it's better to ignore them rather than answer them. Cyber bullies, just like other bullies, may be angry or projecting their own issues onto other people, they may be looking for attention or a reaction. If you're getting cyber bullied and ignoring it doesn't make it go away, getting help from a parent, school counsellor, the eSafety office ( or another trusted adult is really good thing to do especially if the cyber bullying contains threats.

Don't try and deal with it alone, sometimes it is difficult or embarrassing to ask for help but its better to reach out rather than let the bullying continue. Online bullying can get out of hand really quickly, the sooner you act the better.

If someone has used the internet to bully or harass you and you have reported the harmful content online to a site and have not received a response to have that horrible content, comments or photographs removed contact the Office of the eSafety Commissioner ( for assistance immediately.

The office of the eSafety Commissioner operates under laws that give them the power to help youth experiencing serious cyberbullying.

The office provides the following support;

  • a complaints service for young Australians who experience serious cyberbullying
  • identifying and removing illegal online content
  • tackling image-based abuse

We are here to help you. If you do not feel confident to begin this process The Carly Ryan Foundation's staff can help guide you through this difficult time. You are not alone.


Stand up and speak out, cyberbullying affects real lives.

Rather than talking to someone online about personal problems, reach out to someone you know and trust who will listen.

Please remember people you've met online are actually strangers no matter how long you have been talking to them.

So many kids have met with people in person that they met online as a stranger. Kids and teens are very trusting and don't think there are people in this world who will harm them. Unfortunately they do exist. There are too many children who have gone missing because of these types of meetings. Kids & teens should never, meet with someone in person they have met online unless accompanied by a parent, friend or a trusted adult.

If you are determined to meet your new online friend take steps to ensure your safety. Meet during the day, in a public place so you can leave safely and easily if the person who shows up isn't who you thought they were.

We recommend that people keep online friendships in the virtual world.

Meeting online friends face to face carries more risks than other types of friendships because it's so easy for people to pretend to be something they're not when you can't see them or talk in person. It is essential that you Skype or speak to your online friend via live webcam to ensure they are the same person in real life as they say they are on their online profile. If the person you are speaking to online does not agree to this or keeps on making excuses it means something is wrong, they could be hiding their true identity or even worse, you could be in real danger.